Dispassion is not possible unless there is satiety through enjoyment.

You can easily cajole a small child with candies or toys. But after eating the candies and finishing its play, it cries, 'I want to go to my mother.' Unless you take the child to its mother, it will throw away the toy and scream at the top of its voice."

Reference: The Gospel of Sri Ramakrishna, Chapter:10: The Master With The Brahmo Devotees (II)