What should a spiritual aspirant do if his/her spouse complains: 'You are neglecting me' ?

What should a spiritual aspirant do if his/her spouse complains: 'You are neglecting me' ?

If a man has sincere love for God, then all come under his control – the king, wicked persons, and his wife. Sincere love of God on the husband's part may eventually help the wife to lead a spiritual life. If the husband is good, then through the grace of God the wife may also follow his example.